Our secrets are killing us. And the space where many of us hold the most shame is in our sex lives. It is the core of the homophobia we experienced, and where we often reserve our most intense expressions of self-loathing. 😔
"Being steeped in negative messages about our love’s lack of worth as children can prevent us from sharing physical affection as adults. We might fear holding hands in public, even when it is ostensibly safe and legal. We might refrain from kissing other men, even in the privacy of our homes. We might scuttle potential relationships as soon as love or commitment enters the picture, even when we really just long to be loved. Perhaps we prefer pornography to people, even if deep down we want to be seen and known by another man. Maybe we’re unduly passive, and afraid to ask for what we really want, even when we have full agency. There are myriad ways in which we might express our fears of intimacy. And many of them go unchecked for years, becoming patterns of negative love or cycles of isolation.”
🔥🔥BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY! 🔥🔥
No matter where you’ve been, or what you’ve done, it’s not too late for you to create a healthy and fulfilling sex life. ❤️
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