Queer people do not have the luxury of grief. We each of us need a plan. The clock is ticking and it is so much later than we think. We...

Acknowledging past pain invariably incurs a present cost, which is one reason in the U.S. we often choose to mythologize our massacres.

Creating queer ceremonies, traditions, and rites of passage are essential to our mental, emotional, and cultural health.

What was said can never be unsaid. What was done can never be undone. All we can do is acknowledge, apologize, make amends, forgive...

Reliving the past is like trying to swim in the same river twice, as the old saying goes. Both you and the river are always changing...

For nearly forty years, gay men have demonstrated how to survive a plague with grace and dignity...

I have some good news for you: experiencing pain is inevitable. Yes, you hear me correctly! That’s actually good news...

If you’re like me, then the holidays aren’t always easy. Family trauma and bigotry can sometimes drain the joy out of what is supposed to...