Achievement just unlocks more longing. It's the process that's the point.

Certain things require darkness: the growth of a plant's roots, conception, our continual...

Healthy boundaries facilitate the gradual exploration of reciprocal trust.

It's almost as if some of us are looking for a low-cost liberation. But the whole point of social justice is to fully leverage our...

Bigotry is the default in our society. That means each moment we're not actively resisting it and working together to eradicate it...

Let none of us deny love's simple and wondrous gaze.

Initiation is a sacred ceremony that bonds us with both the community and the land. Some queer people, who might never have experienced...

"Decolonizing" our choices means we recognize that the global plunder and genocide of indigenous peoples, particularly by countries in...

There's almost always a way through.

When negotiating, it matters little whether or not I trust you or think you're a "good" person. What matters most is...

When you set out on the road, commit fully to the journey.

Our sexuality need not be defined by our partners' body parts.

Moral judgments are merely projections of those aspects of ourselves we would prefer to avoid.

We cultivate resilience by veering off the path and into unknown terrain, not by sticking to our comfort zones.

Violence is just another way of saying, 'I'm all out of ideas.'

No matter how long the journey, or how winding the road, every trip leads us to the here and now.

If we don't claim our own anger, others will. And they will use it against us -- often with a profit motive in mind.

Some gay men live with long stretches of persistent loneliness, and lose touch with our practice of loving...

Some queer people may never like, trust, or feel fully whole around straight, cis people. And allyship looks like fighting...

The sublime can best be found outside the constraints of our cultural conditioning.