We unlock the richness of life as we learn to accept our limits. Releasing all that we are not affords the capacity to embrace all that...

Reliving the past is like trying to swim in the same river twice, as the old saying goes. Both you and the river are always changing...

Let's relinquish our illusions of control, and allow our hearts to be effortlessly drawn to what we truly need.

Come warm your hands by the gentle fire of life, and let your heart be healed.

I wasted so much time, not realizing that those things I hated most about myself were what others loved, and even desired...

The goal of advocating for greater diversity and inclusion is not the ironing out of our differences, but the delighting in them.

Life's richness resides beyond the limits of rightness and wrongness.

In a society steeped in straight supremacy, all of us make homophobic choices from time to time. Even gay people...

We all swim in a sea of stigma, bias, and prejudice. There's just no avoiding it. It's our work to acknowledge it, listen, read...

I wasted so many years hating the very parts of me that others were trying to love. If we want to experience the richness of life...

You can't heal what you don't love.

It's no use trying to hide from life: there's no solace in slack senses.

Empathy requires that we meet each other where we actually are, instead of flipping on life’s light switches.

It’s so tempting to believe that achievement leads to some sort of freedom, as if our life purpose might save us...

Optimism lies at the intersection of honesty and hope.

Gay men have long known what it has meant to die alone. Suffering in silence, cast out of our communities, left to the mercy of...

If we're really going to love each other, we're also going to have to love each other's liberation.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, try asking yourself this: just what in your life truly needs tending today, in order for you to feel...

For nearly forty years, gay men have demonstrated how to survive a plague with grace and dignity...

In a moment that requires physical distancing, what we also need is radical togetherness.