Disclosing facts about your life is one way to come out of the closet, and sharing your actual authentic life with others is a very...

We Queer people bless this society when we reveal our unconstrained fabulousness.

When we learn to hold our fears of tenderheartedness, the whole world opens up.

If we want to be deeply loved, at some point we must allow ourselves to be deeply seen and known as well.

Personal freedom is first contingent on our choosing to believe we are worth it. And for us Queer people, that's an act of outright...

Freedom comes from acknowledging our fears and choosing to move forward anyway.

Like it or not, people are coming out of about all sorts of things over the course of their entire lives. Finding freedom and loving...

If you want the fireworks to come, you must first risk everything and pry open your heart to the moment.

There's no one way to be Queer. We certainly don't owe anyone a presentation style, a set of mannerisms, a cultural affiliation, or a...

When in doubt, hugs are a good start.

The mountain we choose to climb is the real treasure we seek.

If we're ever going to experience togetherness, we must extend our hearts to the places that scare us.

In our primitive happiness culture, it's tempting to reject any feelings we think might challenge our stories of "success." But when...

When you choose to let someone(s) love you, you're also choosing to nourish your tender heart.

When the mind stills, additional realities have a chance to emerge.

Our daily decisions create culture and determine just what we pass down to Queer youth.

When you soften your heart, there's no telling where love may lead.

It's high time we started making a bigger fuss out of showing public displays of Queer affection. Make it awkward. Make it weird.

In our brutal society I beseech you to treasure your tenderheartedness.

Am I here yet?