When we Queer people stop doubting our intrinsic magnificence, our majesty flows naturally.

My lovely Queerlings, it's impossible to appease anyone into accepting us.

Don't forget to change your habits.

When we learn to hold our fears of tenderheartedness, the whole world opens up.

If we want to be deeply loved, at some point we must allow ourselves to be deeply seen and known as well.

Obstacles are meant to be experienced, not overcome, because there is no other place than here to get to.

Personal freedom is first contingent on our choosing to believe we are worth it. And for us Queer people, that's an act of outright...

Like it or not, people are coming out of about all sorts of things over the course of their entire lives. Finding freedom and loving...

If you want the fireworks to come, you must first risk everything and pry open your heart to the moment.

If we're ever going to experience togetherness, we must extend our hearts to the places that scare us.

In our primitive happiness culture, it's tempting to reject any feelings we think might challenge our stories of "success." But when...

When the mind stills, additional realities have a chance to emerge.

Our daily decisions create culture and determine just what we pass down to Queer youth.

When you soften your heart, there's no telling where love may lead.

In our brutal society I beseech you to treasure your tenderheartedness.

A la carte activism allows straight supremacy to divide Queer people and allies by tempting us to focus on the fractures in our...

Less time coddling the delicate sensibilities of random straight people, and more time inspiring Queer allies and...

Our awareness of the manifold nature of existence might help us attach a little less to the stories we write about our lives.

"Falling" in love is one of the healthiest choices you can make this new year.

When someone tells us "things were different then," what Queer people often hear is that you think folks in the distant past were in some...