When someone confides queerphobic behavior with you, what what they're really telling you is you're their safe space. You can then either...

Part of our work is to make "polite" bigotry socially unacceptable. We must risk discomfort and decorum to confront prejudice in the...

"Karma" is not the same as "poetic justice." It is not some cosmic recrimination. Karma simple means that the sum of our experiences...

Have fun with labels, but don't worry about them. In fact, stop worrying about labels at all, and start focusing on the quality of your...

If you're not ready to unequivocally celebrate and love a queer child, then maybe you're not yet ready to be a parent.

Feminine men are just as "manly" as masculine men. Our flavors of gender expression often differ from our gender orientation, and we owe...

Unfetter your love and let your light shine bright.

Even in the rocky desolation of persistent loneliness the gentle light of togetherness is calling us home.

Queer people, let's walk through every door our hearts desire. If we're not wanted somewhere, there's something wrong with the place, not...

Longing is the grief-induced, ongoing recognition of the limits of our love. Desire is the temporary, yet all-consuming coveting in...

Let yourself lean into love.

Queer people don't own anyone masculinity simply to appease their fragile view of what manhood might mean.

Queer fabulousness is unbothered by conditioning or constraints.

Obstacles always loom large in the distance, until we remember that the journey is the goal.

Let yourself collapse into a love that nourishes your tender heart.

People in power often trade in euphemisms to preserve the delicate sensibilities of their followers, assuage the silent majority, and...

Resisting society's constraints is at the heart of being queer.

There are so many might-have-beens; to choose one thing is to set down another. A lifetime of accumulated choice can leave us wondering...

There's no greater tonic for our society than men being open and free with their tender-hearted affection.

If we're not teaching queer history, then what we're really teaching is queer assimilation.