I wasted so much time, not realizing that those things I hated most about myself were what others loved, and even desired...

We are all complex mixtures of privilege and adversity. By acknowledging our accidental advantages, we can better empathize with...

There's no better expression of gay pride than living your best life.

I wasted so many years hating the very parts of me that others were trying to love. If we want to experience the richness of life...

To allow others to define us is to participate in our own oppression.

There is no theory that supersedes lived experience.

You can't heal what you don't love.

Until we take charge of our lives, we inevitably succumb to its vicissitudes — vacillating between convenience and despair, reacting to...

Gay men have long known what it has meant to die alone. Suffering in silence, cast out of our communities, left to the mercy of...

If we're really going to love each other, we're also going to have to love each other's liberation.

Truth: whether you think you will one day have the relationship of your dreams or not, you're right.

Truth: if you have a core belief that you don't deserve to be in the relationship of your dreams, then it doesn't matter what dating...

So many of us struggle to believe in our innate goodness. We continually trawl the detritus of our lives for evidence of our own...

TRUTH: the single most important thing you can do to improve your relationships this year is to be yourself...

I talk to many guys each day who feel wounded and apprehensive after their latest break-up. They fear letting down their guard...

As we head deeper into the holiday season, it’s so easy for us to succumb to feelings of inadequacy. We’re surrounded by images of gorgeous.

Diversity is always a strength — not something to be papered over, ironed out, or pretended away. We are not all the same, and...

Unexamined privileges lie at the heart of our sense of entitlement.