Learned helplessness in the queer community rears its ugly head in many ways: idle drug use, doom scrolling, panic dating, addiction...

If learned helplessness is a form of homophobic conditioning, then getting informed and empowered is a radical act of resistance.

It's never been about body parts.

Go where your body feels small, but your soul feels big.

Let's normalize the sexiness of continuous consent.

Being the most "you" that you can be is the only superlative that matters.

We don't have to do this alone. In fact, we can't.

We cultivate resilience by going to the places that scare us.

Queer people are here. We've always been here. Living. Laughing. Loving. And we're not going anywhere.

Rest easy, safe in the awareness that there's enough space in this world for every part of you.

Sometimes the most intimate thing we can share is a smile.

When we lock ourselves away from life's wonders, we miss the wild world calling us home. So get out there and have an adventure!

Discipline is a practice, not a punishment.

At a young age, many gay people learn to dissociate as a matter of self-preservation -- hiding who we are for the sake of survival...

We each of us get to decide what's beautiful. Not Hollywood. Not fashion magazines. Not the beauty industry. It's up to us.

Resist your assumptions. Everyone has a story that deserves to be heard.

The surest way to start having better sex is to stop pathologizing femininity, regardless of our gender or sexual orientation.

Love makes a family.

Create space for grace, and room for redemption.

There is beauty in our shadows and purpose in our pasts.