When negotiating, it matters little whether or not I trust you or think you're a "good" person. What matters most is...

When you set out on the road, commit fully to the journey.

Our sexuality need not be defined by our partners' body parts.

Moral judgments are merely projections of those aspects of ourselves we would prefer to avoid.

Letting our love and laughter shine signals we can afford displays of interpersonal authenticity and then share it with the world.

People are manifold, not binary.

We cultivate resilience by veering off the path and into unknown terrain, not by sticking to our comfort zones.

Monogamy is a relational and sexual expression, not a virtue.

If your labels aren't levers, it might be time to let them go.

Love is the selfless choices we make for the spiritual growth and comfort of others. And it's also walking hand-in-hand, fully...

Violence is just another way of saying, 'I'm all out of ideas.'

No matter how long the journey, or how winding the road, every trip leads us to the here and now.

Love only requires we open our hearts to the moment.

If we don't claim our own anger, others will. And they will use it against us -- often with a profit motive in mind.

There's nothing so sacred as queer people overcoming all the bias, bigotry, and relentless loneliness, and then somehow summoning the...

When queer people are granted the space to thrive, the joy we give back to the world is immeasurable.

Moments of stillness create space for our greatest good to infuse our impulses with the magic of the universe.

Some gay men live with long stretches of persistent loneliness, and lose touch with our practice of loving...

Some men have a uterus. It's never been about body parts.

Creating queer ceremonies, traditions, and rites of passage are essential to our mental, emotional, and cultural health.